How to know if he's the one you will marry

I would like to Narrate my experience here. More than Three men proposed marriage to me before my Husband Came. I will discuss about two of them. the first person was a Roman Catholic and His level of education was below my expectation.

thinking about accepting his hand i n marriage, i did not have peace of mind . he had a 504 Salon Car with Air-Conditioner. he had a developed property at Calabar where he lived.

He was an importer of Hollandaise clothes . In his village , he had build a one Storey building, yest i was not convinced. when he insisted , i Recommended my best friend who had earlier Told me she would like to marry and if any man come for me then , i should introduce her to the person. Today, She is Still Married to that man.

In my First year in high school institution, another man came.
He was a lecturer at IMT Enugu . He proposed marriage to me,  but before then he had showed me unspeakable kindness which nearly beclouded my conscience. I tried all I could do, to love him even up to 10% of his love me, it was eclusive. I asked a married friend mine, she told me that love grows that as we continue moving the love would increased , yet I didn't experience it.  I had no peace.

He had a Car, he was educated. he was very caring.  he gave me the first check in my life. He claimed to be a born again, because he was an assistant pastor in his church then.

Everything about About him was And I were Compatible e.g. religion, love for education, age etc, but character and personality. the last two are very pertinent and close to my heart, this is, they form a core value to me. he boasted alot, Talked too much and maintained another girl secretly,

Though I discovered this last one later. personally, I love men who are humble,  who talk few and are reasonable. It seemed that this man was informed of nearly everything.

He was politically minded and was visiting all the commissioners and some other politicians. I could not co-relate his profession as a Christian and his activities.

At a point in time, i went to him and called it a quit. Actually, introduction has been made,we were palnning about dowry and Traditional wedding , when god gave me the final warning .
Meanwhile all these were happening ,the lord revealed to me that my husband whom he would marry, but he did not understand the scenario.

According to his story , he said that when he started seeking the face of God about marriage, he had a dream in march 2015, where he saw himself in the midst of two sisters, one on the left side and the other at the right side, the person at the right was his school mate in those days, while i was the one at his left. in his ignorance, he approached the sister at his right, the sister did not give an answer because she said she was not led to say yes.

My husband then became confused, till one day, he went to a friend's wedding and god directed him to observe the new couple while recessing from the alter, though the aisle of the church, he then discovered that man's wife was at the left hand side not at the right.